Ok brovas, listen up. Valentines Day is upon us once again and once again I hear all kinds of dating horror stories. Men: listen carefully. Do not focus on buying your lady all kinds of stuff for Valentine’s Day. Instead, find out if your relationship is real. Focus on the relationship and not the purchase of monetary items to woo her.

A woman like’s a man who is communicative and talks about a lot of things with her. Find out who she is and find out what she wants to do. Also, don’t be so willing to risk it all and focus on one woman in the beginning of y’all relationship. Ask me how I know. Lockin’ in one one woman in the beginning of a relationship is relationship suicide. Still pursue her and be romantic but keep pursuing other women as well until you all have established that it’s your two and only you two.

A good sistah needs to be treated as such and I recommend finding new and exciting places to take your date. Do more than dinner and a movie. This gets tired although many women will say that’s enough. It’s not and both of y’all will become bored with each other quickly. Find new stuff to do no matter what city you live in. Do something creative. If you need suggestions, ask a brotha, I’ll help you out.