The Black Man’s Dating Rules for Valentines Day

A good sistah needs to be treated as such and I recommend finding new and exciting places to take your date. Do more than dinner and a movie. This gets tired although many women will say that’s enough.

Ok brovas, listen up. Valentines Day is upon us once again and once again I hear all kinds of dating horror stories. Men: listen carefully. Do not focus on buying your lady all kinds of stuff for Valentine’s Day. Instead, find out if your relationship is real. Focus on the relationship and not the purchase of monetary items to woo her.

A woman like’s a man who is communicative and talks about a lot of things with her. Find out who she is and find out what she wants to do. Also, don’t be so willing to risk it all and focus on one woman in the beginning of y’all relationship. Ask me how I know. Lockin’ in one one woman in the beginning of a relationship is relationship suicide. Still pursue her and be romantic but keep pursuing other women as well until you all have established that it’s your two and only you two.

A good sistah needs to be treated as such and I recommend finding new and exciting places to take your date. Do more than dinner and a movie. This gets tired although many women will say that’s enough. It’s not and both of y’all will become bored with each other quickly. Find new stuff to do no matter what city you live in. Do something creative. If you need suggestions, ask a brotha, I’ll help you out.

Why Can’t Black Women Find a Good Black Man?

This interview is very good and informative for black love and black relationships. Hard to believe some of it but it’s very good.

This interview is very good and informative for black love and black relationships. Hard to believe some of it but it’s very good.

2009 Womens Day Conference in Long Beach CA

Television personality Shaun Robinson signs copies of her book Exactly As I Am at the 2009 Women’s Conference – Day 1 at the Long Beach Convention Center on October 26, 2009 in Long Beach, California. Shaun is a co-anchor of Access Hollywood which is a daily entertainment newsmagazine show. Gerard Spinks is the CEO of [...]

Television personality Shaun Robinson signs copies of her book Exactly As I Am at the 2009 Women’s Conference – Day 1 at the Long Beach Convention Center on October 26, 2009 in Long Beach, California. Shaun is a co-anchor of Access Hollywood which is a daily entertainment newsmagazine show.

The 2009 Women's Conference - Day 1 - Long Beach, California

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The Black College Student Strategy Guide

First of all, I need to commend all students who are in college. Thank you for your hard work, long study hours, and dedication to improving your life. The one thing that helped me to succeed in college in my junior year was working with my counselor to develop a strategic plan for when I [...]

First of all, I need to commend all students who are in college. Thank you for your hard work, long study hours, and dedication to improving your life. The one thing that helped me to succeed in college in my junior year was working with my counselor to develop a strategic plan for when I got out of college.

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My plans at first were to play football in the National Football League. The feedback from my coaches and league scouts was that I was neither big enough nor fast enough to go to the next level. While this seriously hurt my feelings, I had a counselor who helped me pick myself up mentally and create a plan.

She knew I was smart as I was taking computer courses. She asked me what did I want to do. I didn’t really know but I knew that I really liked developing computer programs in lab. It was challenging and fun to see the computer say things on the screen and take input. I loved it. She then told me that she felt I would do well if I studied and highly focused on computer science and get a job in the Silicon Valley in California.

My first question was how much money does this type of job make. She then showed me a salary guide showing that top engineers can make in excess of $100,000 per year. Say no more, I was focused. You must develop a strategy before you start taking classes. You must come up with a plan and most importantly find out exactly what makes you want to wake up at 7:30 a.m., roll out of bed, and head to an 8 a.m. class.

Find that, and you find your future success. I haven’t truly “worked” at a job in a very long time because I really love developing software and do not see it as a job. I haven’t watched a clock in years because I love what I do. Find this in college and you will fly high forever.

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