Vanessa Ramirez
I like to debate this whole institutional life of marriage with women more so than I
do with men. When I talk about how marriage is a holy crock of shit and why people
shouldn’t do it, men usually become my best friends within minutes. I have been married,
technically I am still married. Marriage didn’t work for me but that is not why I feel this
way about marriage. To be quite honest if anyone’s marriage should have worked, it
should have been mine. Had it not been for the reckless behavior of my soon to be ex, I
would have been married until the day I died.
My mentality about marriage and relationships is different from a lot of people. I am all
for open relationships, open meaning – have sex with other people. I think in this day
and age it’s the only true way to keep a relationship together. I like to prove my point by asking people in general if they could eat the same turkey sandwich for the rest of their lives morning, noon, and night. I have yet to meet anyone who could do it. Going into my marriage I allowed my husband, soon to be ex, to have sex with other women. I never expected him to faithful, why would I? Look at our world and our society.
I know, I know, I have got some readers who are devout believers in God shaking their
heads. And you know what, I agree with you. Let’s not talk about marriage in a biblical
sense for the mere fact that the reality is, we don’t live in a world where ALL people
are God Fearing. I believe in God to the fullest and I have faith but when you are in a
relationship with someone who does not fear God and the people around them are non-
believers then your faith is literally just that, your faith. I agree that God can change
people, he can work miracles but there are a whole lot of miracles that need to happen.
If you still can’t feel me or even think about my openness with marriage or relationships
then I don’t want to anger you. Stop reading now. Pray for me and the rest of the world. We need people like you. I mean that with all my heart.
Now back to the subject – Marriage – lets face it according to the US census bureau half of all marriages fail. Let me talk facts and merely facts the rest of this blog. Fact, Elin Nordegren is estimated to get 750 million from Tiger Woods for their divorce settlement. Why did they end up to this bitter ending- he cheated. Kobe Bryant – cheated. Who hasn’t cheated is probably the question I should probe. I came into my marriage allowing my husband to “cheat” because I am a realest. Sex is a necessity. I did not believe he would only have sex with me for the rest of my life. I didn’t expect him to either and here is
why.
Fact- scientific data supports that humans evolved from our ancestors the chimpanzees. We share 98% of our genetic blue print with Chimpanzees. Chimpanzees are not monogamous creatures. As a matter of fact, female chimps try and get their freak on as much as possible and they are more prone to have intercourse with a male that will feed them. Ha! Sounds like a typical American female huh? This is FACT- check it out for yourselves if you doubt me. http://www.livescience.com/animals/090407-chimp-sex.html
Don’t let me preach fact. Take a look for yourselves. Do the research. Look into how
marriage evolved. Look into how humans evolved. Marriage was created by man for tax
purposes not for some fairytale of “I do’s”. The puritans brought the religious factor in
marriage. If you look back in time, Marriage was for Business and quite frankly it still is.
We are animalistic creatures. The only animals on earth that are monogamous are birds.
Guess what, humans don’t have wings.
Marriage is a holy crock of poop. Don’t do it!!!!! If you love someone enough to call
them your own, have their name changed and play house but never marry for the sake of Love and Monogamy. You want a tax credit, then get married. But it’s not likely to end well. You can argue my opinion all day but you can’t argue facts. Research the above and give me your thoughts. Happy Reading.
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